Comments on: The Two Sides of the Reading Coin https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/ #1 New York Times Bestselling Author Tue, 28 Oct 2025 12:07:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 By: Karina Guenther https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-855201 Tue, 28 Oct 2025 12:07:59 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-855201 there’s currently in my YouTube feed many stories about women in a subordinate role but more like waitresses, servents or abused rejected by family (usually werewolves here). One was a waitress who had been a scientist and realized that the formula he was about to cut a deal on was one she had created that had been stolen from her and it has a flaw. she risks her current situation to warn hum. surprisingly There was no romance between the 2 but she was put in charge of R&D.

Unfortunately most of these stories are cookie cutter AI crap with ENORMOUS plot holes. and a deadpan AI voice reading them. Ive occasionally taken a stab at writting but all i can come up with is a scene and no ending. but this? i think i could do better.

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By: Melissa C. https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-854174 Wed, 22 Oct 2025 17:54:18 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-854174 These are very helpful perspectives and analysis! Thank you for sharing!

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By: Jeaniene Frost https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853383 Mon, 20 Oct 2025 15:09:46 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853383 In reply to Shinobi42.

If you want another author’s take on this, I’ll weigh in, with the caveat that every writer’s process is different and there is no “one way” to write. That said, I can’t count all the stories I started and stopped before finally finishing a book. So, my first point is, this isn’t unusual. Your prior writings aren’t a waste, either. You’re still learning and growing with each abandoned story. Second, another commenter had a great point saying you have to accept being bad at something before you can be good at it. This is true. Trying to fix a story AS you write can kill your inspiration for writing it. Or, it can stymie your progress to a miserable crawl. (I can hear Ilona laugh as I write this because beginnings still take me FOREVER since I keep trying to fix them before continuing, and she keeps telling me, “Move on! You’ll fix it later!” She’s right, but…old habits die hard :))

Anyway, what finally unblocked my Never Finishing curse was giving myself permission to write “crap.” Once I stopped trying to make each chapter “good” as I wrote them, I could focus on the inspiration that led me to start that story to begin with. This is still how I get past my dreaded beginnings, by the way. So, with your next story, try allowing yourself to write what you might consider absolute drivel as long as it keeps you moving forward to the next chapter. Don’t edit until you type The End. If that doesn’t help, try changing up your process. Do you outline first? Then try pantsing it. Are you a pantser already? Then try outlining. Do you forced yourself to write every day? Then take breaks. Etc. Writing doesn’t have a One Size Fits All process, so you might just be using the wrong process for yourself. And don’t forget to celebrate the little victories. Did you get to 50 pages? Yay! Did you stop on your current story, but the next one is going smoother? Go you! Finally, don’t be discouraged that this isn’t easy. I’ve been a full-time writer for over fifteen years, and it still isn’t easy for me to finish a book. Best of luck to you!

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By: Camille https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853255 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 17:52:01 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853255 Helen Harper use this trope a lot, boss/subordinate or alpha/ subordinate. Some série are better than others, but it Always work . The main caracter are never perfect but always good person.

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By: Camille https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853254 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 17:19:00 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853254 In reply to jewelwing.

Yes !! Meg and Simon are hilarious !!!

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By: Laura https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853241 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 15:16:15 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853241 In reply to Jaye.

I LOOVVVEEE Robin McKinley’s “Sunshine” — one of my all-time favorite novels. Ever. I never get tired of rereading it. It’s really hard to explain why to my friends b/c all of the why I love it answers involve spoilers. So I always end up saying just: you should read this. You won’t regret it.

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By: Laura https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853240 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 15:12:28 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853240 In reply to Moderator R.

Hi Mod R — thanks so much for replying! Perhaps the post that I’ve been thinking of was archived and that’s why I can’t find it. Oh well.

The posting you linked about romance terminology is great!

The post I’m thinking of had a series of statements in this form: you might think Hidden Legacy is an urban romance, but it’s really fantasy (agreed that it’s romance also — no question about that!)

You might think that X series by is us Y, but it’s really Z. So a number of statements that follow this X, Y, Z form —

I’m resigned now to not being able to read it again. I should have saved it at the time b/c it struck me as so interesting!

In any case, thanks for your help!

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By: KarenM https://ilona-andrews.com/blog/the-two-sides-of-the-reading-coin/#comment-853235 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 14:19:17 +0000 https://ilona-andrews.com/?p=40191#comment-853235 In reply to Tia.

+1

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